Honeoye/Canandaigua: At age 60, Mike passed peacefully at home on May 26, 2020. Predeceased by his father Paul Cary. He is survived by his wife of 42 years, Cindy (Deveans) Cary; son Shane Cary (Sarah Walford) of Bristol; granddaughters, Lexi, Lucy, and Laynie Cary; his mother Jackie (Alan) Flandro of Newark; siblings, Chris (Ann) Cary of Newark, Patrick (Barb) Cary of Clifton Springs, Julie (Patrick) Carr of Clifton Springs, and Alan (Diana) Huizinga of Canandaigua; also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Mike graduated from Honeoye Central School Class of 1977. He was married to Cindy for over 42 years and dedicated to his family. He enjoyed spending time with his 3 granddaughters and having fun with them as “Papa.” Mike was a hard worker and worked with his brother for many years in the painting business. He loved gardening, his dogs, and in his free time he liked to fish and have a good time.
A Gathering to Remember Mike will be held in the future. Memorial contributions may be made in Mike’s memory to Ontario-Yates Hospice, 756 Pre Emption Road, Geneva, NY 14456. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
Miss you already uncle mike rest easy you deserve it
So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for everyone as they struggle.
Our prayers and sympathy to Jackie and all of Mike’s family. Losing a loved one is so difficult. We hope your pain lessens with time and your memories with Mike, stay in your hearts forever. Love and hugs, Jim and Denise Maag
I was truly sorry to learn of Mike’s passing. It has been a number of years since I have had contact with you, Chris, Pat, Julie, and of course, Jackie (when you worked at Stonehedge Apartments, and I worked there in the summer of 1984). Please know your loss is keenly felt and my thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family during this very difficult time.
We are so sorry for your loss!! Our deepest sympathy!! Love Jeff & Terri Flandro and Marissa Buhman
My heart is broken. I love you and miss you so much. Love Cindy
So sorry for your loss, sending hugs, love and prayers to your family.
My heart is broken. I love you and miss you so much. Love, Cindy
My heart is broken. I love you and miss you so much. Love, Cindy
Mike you will be truly miss and loved always there are many people you have touched in there heart’s life and brought back together in life. I know you helped me was it money or family. My choice family like you. You may be gone in person but never in my heart and life. Never goodbye see some day love you always THANK YOu!!!
Miss you so much Mike thanks for letting me know you are still here and free of pain let the birds sing love you
My love and thoughts are with you allRIP Mike
So sorry Aunt Cindy Shane Sarah girls he will be truly missed love you guys
So sorry to hear this. I don’t ever remember Cindy and Mike not being together. Prayers for the family.